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plenty of people look at the profile and nobody writes

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everglade_ev Original poster #1

the numbers are doing something odd and i cannot read them.

profile has had a decent number of views since i put it up in june. the counter goes up steadily, and there have been a handful of likes.

messages: four. in two months. two of which were one word.

so people are stopping. the photos are doing enough to make someone tap. and then something on the page is losing them, because they clearly get there and clearly do not write.

which means the problem is in the text, and i have read it so many times i can no longer see it at all. it says what i want, it says roughly who i am, there is a joke in it. i genuinely do not know what is wrong.

is this a known shape? views but no messages? does it point at anything specific, or am i reading tea leaves off a counter that probably counts accidental taps.

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What the handbook says about this

Both halves of the problem end up on this board: a profile that says nothing, and an opener that goes nowhere. Underneath both is usually the same worry about being found by the wrong person, so that one is here too.

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