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where on the profile does having a partner belong Profiles & messages 1 250 13h
i have started copy pasting my openers and i feel grubby about it Profiles & messages 5 847 4d
four photo slots and none of them can have my face in them Profiles & messages 6 844 6d
the first message that finally got a reply Profiles & messages 3 704 13d

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Both halves of the problem end up on this board: a profile that says nothing, and an opener that goes nowhere. Underneath both is usually the same worry about being found by the wrong person, so that one is here too.

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