My ex lives four doors down, so the discretion is about one man
Posted as four_doors_down
- Looking for
- a dominant who is steady rather than intense, on alternate weeks
- Experience
- Nine years, most of it inside a marriage that knew and disliked it.
- Around
- the south side, Glasgow
My ex husband lives four doors down. We share the care of our children, we are civil, and neither of us is moving because neither of us can afford to. Every bit of discretion in this post is about one man rather than about the world.
Forty one, submissive, south side, nine years in, most of it inside a marriage where it was known about and quietly disliked. I have not done anything since it ended and I am nervous rather than rusty, which I think are different things.
So: nothing near my street, nothing that could be described to a neighbour, and nothing at all on the weeks the children are with me. On the other weeks I am free, I am good company, and I have a lot of time to make up for.
What I want is a dominant who is steady rather than intense. Something ongoing, with rules that carry through a fortnight, and somebody who understands that half of my life is unavailable and always will be.
Not looking for anybody who wants to meet the rest of my life. Not looking for a person who will push about the weeks I am not free, since that is the one thing I cannot move. Not looking to explain my divorce, which was ordinary and sad and is nobody's business except ours.