My mother lets herself in, which is why I can never host
Posted as four_streets_away
- Looking for
- a dominant with his own place and the sense not to ask why
- Experience
- Seven years, two dynamics, the longer of them three years.
- Around
- the east end, Glasgow
My mother lives four streets away and lets herself in. She has done for eleven years and she is not going to stop, because I have asked twice and both times it was treated as a joke. That is why I cannot host, and it is a far bigger obstacle in my life than anything to do with kink.
Thirty four, submissive, east end, seven years in. I work ordinary hours for the first time since I was twenty.
What I want is a dominant with somewhere of his own and the sense not to ask why I never suggest mine. Beyond that, something ongoing rather than occasional, rules that hold on the days we do not see each other, and somebody who notices when I go quiet instead of assuming I am busy.
I am blunt in writing and considerably softer in person. I will tell you once, plainly, if something is not working, and I expect the same rather than three weeks of it being hinted at.
Not looking for anybody who wants to be seen out with me anywhere near here. Not looking for a person who reads discretion as shame, because it is not shame, it is my mother. Not looking to send photographs to somebody I have not met.