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Dominants the city centre, Glasgow

Twenty nine, and looking for a man thirty years older than me

Posted as i_want_somebody_older

Looking for
a submissive man in his fifties or sixties for a long arrangement
Experience
Seven years, two dynamics, both with much older men.
Around
the city centre, Glasgow

I am twenty nine and I am looking for a submissive man in his fifties or sixties. It is a preference rather than a phase, and I have had the conversation about it often enough to want it settled in the first paragraph.

Dominant woman, city centre, seven years in, two dynamics behind me and both with men more than twenty years older.

Why: because it works. The men I have led arrived knowing their own minds, with settled lives, no need to be impressive and no interest in testing whether I was serious. None of that is strictly about age. In my experience it correlates, and I would rather be honest about the pattern than pretend I have no type.

What I want is something long and structured. Service, protocol if you enjoy it, standards held across a week rather than staged in an evening. I am organised, demanding and reasonably kind.

Not looking for anybody who is going to be strange about the gap in either direction. Not looking for a person who wants me to perform a fantasy of a young woman in charge, which I can hear coming within two messages now. Not looking to be told I will feel differently in ten years, since I might, and I do not live in ten years.

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