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Dominants the west end, Glasgow

West end, impressive job, and I know exactly how that reads

Posted as west_end_and_i_know

Looking for
one submissive man for a long dynamic built on service
Experience
Eleven years, two dynamics, both of them four years or more.
Around
the west end, Glasgow

I live in the west end, I have a job people find impressive, and I have watched three conversations on this board cool the moment both facts arrived. So they are going at the top and we can get past them.

Thirty six, dominant woman, eleven years in. I do not care where anybody is from or what they do. I care whether they keep their word, and I have found that entirely uncorrelated with anything else about a person.

But I am not going to pretend the thing is not there. It is a real feature of this city, and if you would spend the whole time waiting for me to be condescending, it will not work no matter how firmly I insist that I am not. Better to know now than in April.

What I want is one submissive man for a long dynamic. Service and structure rather than anything theatrical. Daily contact, expectations that are identical every week, and honesty when something is not landing.

Not looking for a person who wants to make a point through me. Not looking for anybody who needs a great deal of reassurance about the above, because after two months I will be tired of giving it. Not looking for someone who thinks any of this is exotic, since it is mostly a shared calendar and a lot of admin. And not looking for a man who will tell me in the first message that he is intimidated by me, which is offered as a compliment and has never once preceded anything that lasted.

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