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Dominants the west end, Glasgow

Everything I want is ordinary, so here is what I do not do

Posted as mostly_a_list_of_nos

Looking for
one submissive man for service, structure and standards
Experience
Twenty years, three dynamics, the longest of them nine years.
Around
the west end, Glasgow

Everything I want is ordinary, so this post is mostly a list of what I do not do. It will save us both a fortnight.

Forty four, dominant woman, west end, twenty years in. No pain beyond the moderate. No humiliation, none, not even the mild version everybody insists is different. No public anything. No titles in writing before we have met. No arrangement that requires me to be available on demand. No men who describe themselves as alpha, which I accept is a matter of taste and it is my taste. And nothing whatsoever involving money in either direction.

What is left is a great deal. One submissive man, ongoing, for a dynamic built on service, structure and standards. Daily contact. Tasks that carry on between meetings. Correction that is a conversation neither of us enjoys rather than an event either of us stages.

I am warm, I am organised, and I have been told I run this like a small business, which is fair enough.

Not looking for anybody who reads the list above as a challenge. Not looking to explain why any item is on it. Not looking for a first message that opens by telling me what you would like, since I have not asked yet.

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