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Couples the south side, Glasgow

Twenty two years together, so here is the week rather than a poem

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Looking for
one submissive man for a written arrangement with a fixed shape
Experience
Twenty two years together, one previous arrangement of six years.
Around
the south side, Glasgow

Twenty two years together and we know exactly what we are asking for, so here is the week rather than a paragraph about our chemistry.

Fifty one and fifty four, south side. Tuesday evening, dinner at ours and afterwards whatever we have agreed. Thursday, a list of things done at your own home and reported on. Sunday afternoon twice a month, several hours, at our pace. Everything else is yours and we would want it to stay that way.

We are looking for one submissive man for that arrangement, on a written agreement, reviewed every three months. She leads, he assists, and the man we are looking for would answer to both of us in different ways that we would set out properly before anything began.

We did this once before, for six years. It ended when he met somebody, and we helped him move.

Not looking for anybody who wants to live with us. Not looking for a person who wants only one of us, which is the opening line of half our replies and always has been. Not looking for somebody who reads that schedule and thinks it sounds cold, since the schedule is what makes it warm and we have twenty two years of evidence for it.

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