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Submissives the city centre, Glasgow

Here is the ask, in the first line, since nobody else manages it

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Looking for
one dominant woman who sets rules and holds me to them
Experience
Three years, one dynamic, eleven months, ended over distance.
Around
the city centre, Glasgow

Here is the ask, in the first line, because I have read forty posts on this board tonight and thirty of them took four paragraphs to say nothing. I want one dominant woman, ongoing, who sets rules I keep during the week and holds me to them.

Twenty nine, submissive, city centre, three years in. One dynamic, eleven months, ended because she moved for work and neither of us wanted to pretend about the distance.

What I am like: reliable, dull about admin, reasonably funny once I relax, and no good at all at the flowery version of this. I can host. My evenings are free apart from Thursday.

What I would like from you is what you actually want, in plain words, rather than a description of how powerful you are. I will take you at your word and I would far rather find out now that we want different things.

I have been on this board four months and the thing that has surprised me is how much of it is written for an audience. I would rather sound flat and be understood. Not looking for a scene once a month. Not looking to be tested before we have met. Not looking for anybody who needs a title used in a text message, which I have tried and which made me feel like an idiot standing in a queue.

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