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Dominants the east end, Glasgow

Two dynamics in eighteen years, and I am looking for the third

Posted as two_in_eighteen

Looking for
one submissive for something that settles over a year, not a fortnight
Experience
Eighteen years, two dynamics, of seven years and five years.
Around
the east end, Glasgow

Two dynamics in eighteen years. The first ran seven years and the second five, and there was a gap of three years in between during which I did nothing at all rather than take something that was not right.

Forty two, dominant woman, east end. That ratio is the most useful thing I can tell you about myself. I do not collect people, variety does not interest me, and I have never run two arrangements at the same time.

What I am looking for is the third one. One submissive, ongoing, with structure through the week, standing expectations, and enough room inside it for both of us to have full lives. I would far rather it took a year to settle than a fortnight.

I am unhurried in a way that frustrates people who arrive wanting something to happen soon. My first meetings are a conversation and nothing else, and so are my second ones.

Not looking for anybody who wants intensity in the first month. Not looking to be one of several people you are talking to, and I am aware that is a demand rather than a preference. Not looking for something that would need renegotiating every time it became inconvenient.

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