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Dominants south of Midtown, Houston

Forty two, and in my part of this city everyone knows everyone

Posted as four_months_of_heat

Looking for
a submissive man who can be trusted with a street that talks
Experience
Thirteen years, one long dynamic, several short ones.
Around
south of Midtown, Houston

I have lived in the same part of this city my whole life. So has almost everybody I know. For four months of the year it is too hot to be outdoors, and nothing here happens anywhere but somebody's front room, so whatever happens here happens privately or it does not happen.

Forty two, dominant, thirteen years in. My longest arrangement ran five years with a man who eventually wanted to marry me, which was not on offer, and we ended it better than most people manage to. I am specific about what I want. Service and obedience, over a long period, in the ordinary parts of life rather than only behind a closed door. I am not much interested in equipment. I am extremely interested in whether you do what you said you would on a Wednesday when nobody is watching.

The discretion here is total and has to be. If you are somebody who talks, or who would hint at it to a friend, we will not work out. I run into people I have known since childhood every day of my life. Spanish or English. I move between them constantly and so does everybody here. I will consider somebody across the city if he is realistic about the drive. Two of my previous arrangements were across the city and both worked better than the one ten minutes away, because distance forces people to be deliberate and proximity lets them be lazy.

I am not interested in anybody attached to somebody who has not been told. I have also got quick at spotting the difference between a man who wants this and a man who wants to have wanted it.

Write me a proper paragraph. I can tell a great deal from a paragraph.

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