BDSM personals in Houston
Houston is physically huge and people here measure a match in freeway minutes rather than miles. The pool is large but quieter than the city's size predicts: this is a discreet board, and a lot of posts say plainly that nobody in their working life knows. Summer shapes it too, because for four months of the year nobody is doing anything outdoors and the board gets busier.
Posts come from the Heights, Montrose, Midtown, the west side and Clear Lake. People lead with where they are for a reason.
Dominants in Houston
People looking to lead, and saying what that means to them.
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I made a spreadsheet about this and I am not sorry
Looking for: someone who will fill in the second column honestly
Six years, all of it topping, all of it thoroughly documented.
There is a spreadsheet. Three tabs. Conditional formatting. My last partner found this either the best or the worst thing about me depending on the week, and reader, we did not survive.
Submissives in Houston
People looking to submit, on terms they set out first.
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Houston, and my calendar is the hardest part of this
Looking for: someone who can read a shift calendar without taking it personally
Six years, mostly one dynamic that ended when she moved away.
Houston, east side of the county for work, and my schedule is the first thing you need to know, because it is the thing that ends most of my conversations.
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Autistic, thirty, and I am not going to pick up on your hints
Looking for: a dominant who says the thing instead of implying it
Five years online, eighteen months in person, one good arrangement.
I am autistic. The relevant part for you is that I do not read implication well and I will take almost everything you say literally, which is a feature in this and a problem nearly everywhere else.
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Seven years of this in Houston and I have never met anybody
Looking for: someone who would help me cross over from the screen
Seven years, all of it online, none of it in a room.
I have been doing this online since I was twenty four and I have never been in a room with anybody. That is embarrassing to type out and it is the central fact of the post, so it goes first.
Switches in Houston
People who go both ways and want a partner who can follow.
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I run job sites, which apparently means I must be a domme
Looking for: a partner who lets me choose which side I am on that week
Eleven years, both directions, and no settled preference.
Every time I mention what I do for a living somebody decides they already know what I am into. I manage construction projects in Houston. I am five foot ten, I own steel toed boots, I have told grown men off in front of their crews. None of that tells you anything about what I want on a Friday night.
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Thirty five, out past the west edge, and the wind has not stopped since March
Looking for: someone who finds a long drive worth doing twice
Six years, both roles, mostly crammed into travel weekends.
There is nothing out here and I mean that affectionately. Rice, wind, a sky that goes all the way down to the ground. It is forty minutes to the edge of Houston and another hour to anywhere inside it once the freeways fill, and that is the reason I am typing this rather than meeting anybody.
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Twenty seven, broke, no car, and being upfront about all three
Looking for: somebody patient about logistics and unbothered by a student budget
Two years, mostly bottoming, one summer of topping a friend.
Realistic disclosure at the top. I am a graduate student in Houston, I do not have a car, and my budget is a joke. If any of that is a problem, and it fairly might be, no hard feelings at all.
Couples in Houston
Partners searching together, with both of them in the post.
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Married twenty seven years and starting this at fifty four
Looking for: a woman who would be patient with two people learning late
None between us, unless reading a great deal counts.
My wife asked me to write this and will read it before it goes anywhere, which is the arrangement for everything we do now.
Writing your own
Reading fifty of these is the easy half. The handbook covers the rest.
- Writing a profile that says something
- Photographs, and staying anonymous enough
- The safety basics, in one page
- What a first meeting is actually like
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