There are not many of us here and I have already met eleven
Posted as eleven_of_them
- Looking for
- somebody I have not already had a polite dead end with
- Experience
- Five years, two dynamics, one of them nine months.
- Around
- the city centre, Liverpool
I have been doing this here for five years and I have met eleven people from boards like this one. That is not a boast, it is close to the whole population as far as I can tell, and it is why I keep seeing the same faces come round again with a new photograph and a slightly different opening line.
Thirty three, submissive, city centre, and I work in a job with normal hours for once in my life.
None of the eleven were bad people. Two are friends now. Most of it fizzled in the way things do when neither of you says what you want, so I am going to say it. I want a dynamic that lasts, with rules that exist on the days we do not see each other, and somebody who tells me plainly when I have got something wrong.
I would rather be turned down in the first message than left on read for a fortnight, and in a pool this size that is not a preference, it is basic manners. You will almost certainly run into me again at some point, and I would like that to be a nod rather than a swerve. I have a flat I can host in and my evenings are free. I am dry, I am no good at flirting in writing, and I improve once there is a table between us.
Not looking for anything that only exists at weekends. Not looking for someone who wants to meet up quickly and decide later whether they like me. And not looking to be talked into travelling over to Manchester every time, because I have done that arrangement and the last train home ruins it.