BDSM personals in Liverpool
Liverpool is a small board by numbers and a warm one by temperament. Word travels here, so people tend to be careful and direct at the same time: careful about who they tell, direct about what they want, because the pool is not big enough to waste six weeks on a mismatch. A lot of posts mention Manchester as a realistic hour away.
Posts come from the city centre, the Baltic Triangle, Wirral, south Liverpool and Sefton. People lead with where they are for a reason.
Dominants in Liverpool
People looking to lead, and saying what that means to them.
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Fifty four, dominant, and everything gets written down first
Looking for: a submissive who finds a written agreement reassuring
Twenty five years, four arrangements, all of them documented.
Every arrangement I have had has started with a document. Not a legal one, obviously, and not a novelty contract with silly clauses in it. Two or three pages that say what is expected, what is off the table, how often we talk, and how either of us ends it without it becoming a row. I have done four and I have never once regretted the hour it took.
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Three weeks offshore, three weeks home, and no phone signal in between
Looking for: a submissive who can hold a structure across a long silence
Ten years, two dynamics, one of which survived this rota well.
Three weeks away, three weeks home, and while I am away the contact is patchy and sometimes there is none at all for a day or two. There is no version of this where that changes, so it goes in the first line rather than the tenth. Thirty eight, Wirral, dominant, ten years in and offshore for eight of them.
Submissives in Liverpool
People looking to submit, on terms they set out first.
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Twelve and a half hour shifts, so please do not suggest Thursday
Looking for: a dominant who can work around a rota nobody would choose
Four years, two dynamics, both ended over my hours.
My shifts are twelve and a half hours and they come in blocks, and when I finish a run of three I am not good company for a day afterwards. That is the reality, it is not going to improve, and it has ended both of the dynamics I have had.
Switches in Liverpool
People who go both ways and want a partner who can follow.
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Doing this since the nineties, and still not bored of it
Looking for: one person for a long friendship that becomes something
Thirty years, both sides, three long relationships and no drama.
I have been at this for thirty years and the thing that surprises people is that I have almost no stories. No disasters, no dramatic fallings out, nobody who turned out to be a nightmare. Three long relationships, all of which contained this, all of which ended kindly, and one of which I still get a birthday card from.
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In a van somewhere else all week, back over the water on Fridays
Looking for: somebody whose week has room for a person who is only in it at weekends
Nine years, both sides, nothing that has survived my job yet.
Monday morning I am in a van heading for wherever the contract is, and I sleep in a travel inn somewhere in the Midlands until Thursday night. I have done it for six years. The money is why, and before anybody suggests it, no, there is nothing equivalent locally.
Couples in Liverpool
Partners searching together, with both of them in the post.
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We met through a post like this one, so it does occasionally work
Looking for: friends, and possibly one connection, from two people who got lucky
Together four years, met through a board, both experienced before.
Four years ago one of us answered a post very like this one and expected nothing at all to come of it. We have been together ever since, we bought a house in the spring, and the whole thing started with an unpromising message sent at one in the morning.
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Both new, both wary, and we would rather admit the second part
Looking for: an experienced couple who will not mind being asked awkward questions
Together five years, about eight months of doing anything at all.
We have read enough to know that a new couple is exactly the sort of thing certain people go looking for. So we are going to be upfront: we are new, we are interested, and we are also watching for it, and if that offends you then honestly that tells us something useful.
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As far as we can tell, we are the only couple doing this
Looking for: another couple, for friendship first and honestly maybe only that
Together eleven years, this between us for six, nobody else ever.
Six years of this and we have never once spoken to another person about it. Not a friend, not a sister, nobody. We have a big loud family between us and a house that is full most Sundays, and there is this one enormous thing in our marriage that never gets a mention.
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We have driven to Manchester for four years and we would like to stop
Looking for: one submissive who is actually in this city
Together eight years, in this for six, two previous arrangements both away.
Both of the arrangements we have had were with people who lived an hour away. Both were good. Both eventually collapsed under the sheer weight of the driving, because an evening becomes a five hour commitment and after a while you stop suggesting it on a weeknight.
Writing your own
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- What a first meeting is actually like
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