From June we are out of town at weekends, which is rather the point
Posted as the_dacha_months
- Looking for
- another couple who are also easier to be themselves out of the city
- Experience
- Fifteen years together, eleven with this in it, four other couples known.
- Around
- the near suburbs, Moscow
From the middle of June until September we are out of the city every weekend, at a place two hours away that has been in one of our families for a long time. In the city we are extremely careful people. Out there we are two hours from anybody who knows us, and it is remarkable what that does to a person's shoulders.
We are forty seven and forty nine, together fifteen years, based in the near suburbs the rest of the year. Eleven years of this between us. We have known four other couples over that time, three through introductions and one through a post very like this one, and two of those friendships have lasted.
What we want is another couple to know properly. Slowly. Several meetings in town first, over months, with nothing expected, and then perhaps a weekend out of town much later if everybody is comfortable. We have learned that the country part has to come at the end rather than the beginning, because it removes everybody's easy exit and that is not a thing to do to people you barely know.
In our house she leads and he does not, and it is settled rather than exploratory. We are quiet, we are early to bed, and we spend a lot of the summer arguing about vegetables.
Not looking for a single person. Not looking for a couple who want to move quickly, since we do not. Not looking for anybody who is only interested in the weekends and not in knowing us the rest of the year.