Berlin, fifty eight, retired, plain about what I still want
Posted as harbour_crane
- Looking for
- a submissive woman who is past needing to prove anything
- Experience
- Thirty years, most of it with one person who has died.
- Around
- the west of the city, Berlin
I was married to a submissive woman for twenty six years and she died three years ago. I am saying it at the top because it explains everything else in this post and because I would not be able to avoid it later anyway.
Fifty eight. I worked on ships and then on the engines that go in them, and I have been retired eighteen months, which suits me less than I expected. Berlin these days, in the west of the city, small flat, small circle.
I am not looking to replace anybody and I would be suspicious of myself if I were. What I would like is a woman somewhere near my age who wants an arrangement with a shape to it. Time set aside. Expectations written down, because I like things written down. Nothing frantic.
I do rope and I do discipline, both learned slowly and both fairly old fashioned. I am not much interested in anything invented in the last decade, though I am willing to be shown. I am plain looking, plain spoken, and I do not text quickly, so if you need contact several times a day I will let you down without meaning to.
I have no interest in anyone under about forty five. I have no interest in a woman who wants to be looked after financially, and I have ended two conversations on that. And I have no interest in pretending I am not still sad sometimes. If that is too much, I understand entirely.