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Dominants Friedrichshain, Berlin

Berlin, forty nine, dominant, and not available around the clock

Posted as set_times_only

Looking for
a submissive who wants something serious and part time
Experience
Twenty one years, three collared dynamics, all ended properly.
Around
Friedrichshain, Berlin

I do not do full time. I have done it twice and both times it slowly ate a real life I was quite fond of. Anyone whose first question is whether I want a live in slave can save us both the exchange.

Forty nine, Berlin, twenty one years in this. Three dynamics with a collar in them, all of which ended for ordinary reasons and none badly, which I regard as the only reference worth anything.

What I want is something serious, ongoing and bounded. Set times. Real authority inside them and very little outside, apart from a small number of standing rules that are easy to keep. I like discipline more than pain, though I use both. I like a submissive who has opinions and states them, because obedience from somebody with nothing to give up is worthless.

I work long hours in a technical job and I am a poor correspondent during the week. I answer properly at weekends. If short replies bother you, this will bother you.

I am not going to tell you what you want to hear now and let you find out later. I do not want to live with anybody. I will not be your only social contact and I will push back hard if I see that starting to happen. If all this sounds like less than you hoped for, it probably is, and you should write to somebody else with my genuine good wishes.

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