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Dominants the west of the city, Berlin

Fifty seven, Berlin, dominant, no interest in a performance

Posted as never_owned_leather

Looking for
someone real, nearby, and not looking for a character from a film
Experience
Twenty six years, two long dynamics, one very short one.
Around
the west of the city, Berlin

I have never owned a piece of leather in my life and I am not going to start now. Whatever is in your head from films, it is not me. I am a fifty seven year old man who maintains machinery and who has led two women for a long time each.

Berlin, the west of it, which is the part of this city people forget has anybody in it at all. Nothing here is more than half an hour on a train and I have never once needed a car.

What I do: rules, discipline, rope that I learned properly from somebody who knew, and a great deal of talking. I am calm rather than theatrical. I do not raise my voice and I have never needed to. I like a submissive who is competent in her own life, because obedience only means something if it costs something.

What I want is one person, long term, seen regularly. I am past wanting variety and I was never much good at it.

I am not on this board often and I answer slowly. My hands are not what they were and I have adjusted what I do rather than pretending otherwise. I do not want anyone who needs constant messaging, and I do not want anyone looking for a father, which is a different thing and I have learned to spot it early. If you are anywhere in this city and tired of being told what you are supposed to enjoy, write.

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