Twenty nine, Berlin, switch, three shifts and a bad car
Posted as late_shift
- Looking for
- someone flexible about days because my week rotates
- Experience
- Four years, started bottoming, top about half the time now.
- Around
- the edge of Friedrichshain, Berlin
My shifts rotate on a three week cycle, so asking whether I am free on Saturday is a coin flip. I can tell you my free days two months ahead. I just cannot promise they will be weekends.
Twenty nine, switch, I work in a distribution depot. Four years in this. I started out bottoming because that is what I assumed I was, and now it is roughly half and half depending on who I am with.
I would like something ongoing with one person. Not a full time dynamic, I do not think I have the energy for one on this roster, but more than an occasional evening. Somebody I know well enough that we are not renegotiating from zero every time.
Things I like: rope both ways, being pinned, giving orders in a very calm voice, and long conversations afterwards that go completely off topic. Things I am cautious about: heavy impact, which I have had done badly, and anything involving my breathing at all, which is a hard no. I am not experienced enough to teach anybody from scratch and I would rather say so than take it on and do it badly.
The night buses out where I live run about once an hour and my car is old, so I will be honest about how far I can realistically come. Half an hour, fine. An hour and a half across the city at midnight, not regularly. If you also work an awkward roster you will have understood all of this immediately, which would be a nice change.