Service only, no pain, Berlin, and I do mean none
Posted as service_only_quiet
- Looking for
- someone who wants work done well rather than someone hurt
- Experience
- Eight years, all of it in service arrangements.
- Around
- the Kreuzberg side, Berlin
No pain. Not light pain, not a bit of pain, not just to see. This is the sentence I repeat most often and the reason it is in the headline and now here as well.
I am forty four and what I want is to be useful. Cleaning, cooking, errands, organising the parts of somebody's life they hate organising, and being held to a standard while I do it. That is the whole of it and it is enough for me. Eight years across two arrangements and I have never once wanted it to include being struck.
Berlin, the Kreuzberg side, own flat, own job, no need for anything financial in either direction. This is not an arrangement about money and I would end it if it started to be.
Sex is not the point either, and I would rather it be off the table at the start. If that changes later it changes, but I do not want a dynamic that is really about waiting for it.
What I need from you is that you actually want the work done, rather than a performance of wanting it. If you would rather do your own laundry we will both be bored inside a month. I would want to meet a few times first and I would want to know how you treated the last person who did this for you. If there has not been one, fine. If there has and it ended badly, I would like the real version of why.