Sixty one, Berlin, formal, and willing to teach if asked
Posted as quiet_office
- Looking for
- someone at the beginning who wants to be taught properly
- Experience
- Thirty four years, several students, two long dynamics.
- Around
- Prenzlauer Berg, Berlin
I taught for thirty years and I have never entirely stopped, which is either an asset or a warning depending on what you are here for.
Sixty one, retired, Berlin, and in this since my twenties. I have led two long dynamics and taught perhaps six people the basics properly. I mention it because teaching is what I am offering rather than something I would merely tolerate. My manner is formal. I use surnames until invited otherwise. I write in full sentences and I expect an answer to the question I actually asked. If that reads as stiff, it is, and I have made my peace with it.
What I would like is somebody genuinely at the start. I would rather have no experience than confident half knowledge. We would begin with conversation, then with reading, then with very small practical steps, and there would be a good deal of talking about consent that you may find excessive until the first time it matters.
I am not interested in a relationship. I am interested in a defined arrangement with a beginning, a shape, and an honest end when it has run its course. Several of the people I taught went on to build lives with somebody else, and I count that as the correct outcome.
Age does not matter to me provided you are an adult and clear headed about what you are asking for. Nervousness is fine. Vagueness is not. If you cannot yet say what draws you to this, come back when you can.