Sixty six, dominant, and looking for somebody who remembers the eighties
Posted as sixty_six_dominant
- Looking for
- a submissive of roughly my own generation for something steady
- Experience
- Thirty five years, three long dynamics, a marriage inside two of them.
- Around
- out towards Worcestershire, Birmingham
Every message I have had in the past three months has come from somebody under thirty five, and while I am sure they all meant it kindly, I have no interest in being anybody's education in what people were like before the internet.
Sixty six, out towards Worcestershire, thirty five years of this, which means I started before there was anywhere to read about it and everything I know arrived from somebody telling me in person.
What I want is somebody in roughly my own decade. Not out of any principle about age gaps, because other people can do as they please. It is that I would like to be with a person who has the same amount of life behind them, who understands illness and grown children and the particular shape a week takes when you no longer work, and with whom I do not have to explain a reference.
I am perfectly capable and I am also not going to pretend I am forty. There are things I did then that I do not do now. What I have instead is patience and an extremely good memory for what somebody told me they wanted back in April.
I would like something steady and domestic. Regular days, a real structure, and a great deal of ordinary company round the edges of it. Not looking for anybody who wants to be a project. And not looking for a person who is grieving, because I have made that mistake with the best of intentions and it was unfair to both of us.