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BDSM Dating

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Dominants Moseley, Birmingham

I only do this with women, and that part is not up for discussion

Posted as only_with_women

Looking for
a submissive woman for something long, local and unhurried
Experience
Twelve years, three dynamics, the shortest of them two years.
Around
Moseley, Birmingham

I get four or five messages a month from men who have read that line and decided it is a challenge, an oversight, or something I will reconsider once I meet the right one. It has been twelve years. I am not going to reconsider, and I have stopped being polite by about the fourth message.

Thirty eight, Moseley, twelve years in, three dynamics behind me and none of them short.

What I want is a woman who wants to be led in her ordinary life rather than for an evening. I am interested in how somebody organises her week, what she eats, whether she sleeps, and what she has been putting off since March. The physical part of this matters to me, but it is not the spine of it, and if it is the spine for you then we would disappoint each other by about the third month.

Local matters. I did an hour each way for two years and I am not doing it again. Not looking for anybody still married to a person who does not know. And not looking for somebody in the first six months of working out what they are, which is a fine thing to be doing and not a thing to do with me.

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