Diabetic, submissive, and food is the one thing I need you to take seriously
Posted as eat_at_seven
- Looking for
- a dominant who finds practical constraints ordinary rather than annoying
- Experience
- Six years, three dynamics, one that handled this beautifully.
- Around
- the mid-cities, Dallas
Type one, diagnosed at nineteen, and by now the management of it is as automatic as brushing my teeth. It only becomes a subject when somebody else is deciding how my evening goes, which in this context is quite often the whole point.
So the practical bit, stated plainly. I eat at predictable times. Nothing involving controlling food or fasting, ever, and that is not a soft limit. I need a pocket or a bag within reach at all times and I will check things when I need to check them without asking permission first. If any of that removes something you were hoping for, better now than later.
Forty three, mid-cities, submissive, six years. Three dynamics. The best of them was with a woman who read exactly one article about it and then never made it strange again, and that is the entire bar.
Beyond the logistics I am extremely straightforward. I want ongoing structure with somebody who pays attention. Rules I keep during the week. A regular evening. Service, protocol, and correction that is spoken rather than administered. I work in logistics, I have a dog, my ex wife and I are on good terms, and my life is quiet in a way that some people find restful and others find boring.
Not looking for anyone who wants to incorporate the medical part into anything. Not looking for someone who will treat the routine as a limit on their creativity. Not looking to be worried about out loud, which is well meant and which I find unbearable.