BDSM personals in Dallas
Dallas is a working city and the board reads like one. A lot of people here have jobs where being found out would be an actual problem, so discretion is stated up front rather than implied, and a surprising number of posts mention that nobody at work knows anything. The metro is wide, so people give their side of it early and mean it.
Posts come from uptown, Oak Cliff, the mid-cities, Plano side and the east side. People lead with where they are for a reason.
Dominants in Dallas
People looking to lead, and saying what that means to them.
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Took early retirement at fifty one and now I have far too much time
Looking for: somebody busy, honestly, because I have become a bit much
Eighteen years, three dynamics, all while working full time.
Twenty six years at the same company and then a very polite conversation and a number, and now I get up at seven for no reason and have finished everything I intended to do by eleven.
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I live on the side of this city that does not care
Looking for: a submissive who wants warmth in the structure and not just rigour
Ten years, two dynamics, both long and both fairly relaxed.
Half this board sounds like a legal disclaimer. Everybody is careful, everybody has a job that would end, everybody has a lid on. I understand all of it and I do not have that life, and I have started to think somebody should say so.
Submissives in Dallas
People looking to submit, on terms they set out first.
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My entire family lives fifteen minutes away and that is the problem
Looking for: somebody on the far side of the metro, honestly, for safety
Two years, nothing in person, a great deal of thinking about it.
Parents, two aunts, four cousins, my brother and his wife, and the family business where I have worked since I was nineteen. All of them inside a fifteen minute drive of where I sleep. I love them. It is also a net.
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Moved here in March with a job, still living out of corporate housing
Looking for: a mentor more than a partner, at least for the first while
A year and a half, mostly online, one weekend that went well.
The company moved me and about forty other people down here in the spring. I am twenty seven, I know the eleven colleagues who came with me, and I know nobody else in this metro at all.
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Diabetic, submissive, and food is the one thing I need you to take seriously
Looking for: a dominant who finds practical constraints ordinary rather than annoying
Six years, three dynamics, one that handled this beautifully.
Type one, diagnosed at nineteen, and by now the management of it is as automatic as brushing my teeth. It only becomes a subject when somebody else is deciding how my evening goes, which in this context is quite often the whole point.
Switches in Dallas
People who go both ways and want a partner who can follow.
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Nine houses on my street and eight have a camera pointed at mine
Looking for: somebody who can host, which is the entire practical requirement
Twelve years, three dynamics, none of them at my address.
I live on a suburban cul de sac where the residents have a group chat about a coyote. Somebody parked in front of my house for two hours in April and it was discussed for a week. Nothing will ever happen inside my house, and after twelve years I have stopped floating the idea to people as though it might.
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I need the plan confirmed two days ahead or I cannot come at all
Looking for: somebody who will find that ordinary rather than high maintenance
Four years, one dynamic, ended over exactly this.
If a plan is loose I will worry at it for two days and then cancel an hour before, and by then I will have made myself so unwell about it that the cancellation feels like a relief. That is the pattern. I know it, I have worked on it, and the thing that actually fixes it is boring: tell me the plan, in writing, forty eight hours ahead, and then do not change it.
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If you are never going to meet me, please do not write for months
Looking for: one person who will be in an actual room within a fortnight
Ten years, and lately a great deal of very high quality typing.
Last year I had three conversations that each ran for months. Thoughtful, funny, genuinely enjoyable messages, hundreds of them, and not one of those people ever agreed to be in a room with me. Two of them are presumably still writing to somebody. One of them told me, at the end, that they preferred it this way and had known that from the start.
Couples in Dallas
Partners searching together, with both of them in the post.
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Both past sixty, and what we want is dinner with people who know
Looking for: other couples our age for company, with nothing else on the table
Together twenty nine years, this between us for most of them.
We are sixty two and sixty four and we are not looking for anybody to do anything with. We want to sit at a table with another couple and have a conversation in which nothing has to be explained or edited.
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The youngest moved out in May and we have no idea what to do
Looking for: conversation with people who have done this at our stage of life
Married twenty four years, this quietly present for about fifteen.
For twenty two years there was always somebody else in the house. Now there is not, and the thing we have discovered is that we spent two decades keeping this very small and very quiet and we no longer remember how to make it bigger.
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Both of us work somewhere that makes this a problem, so we are careful
Looking for: one submissive for a long arrangement inside an established household
Married fourteen years, structured for nine, one previous arrangement.
We are both employed by large companies up on the north side, in roles where a rumour would follow us for years, and we have arranged our whole life around that being true. It is the first thing we say to anybody and it is the thing most likely to end a conversation.
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