Took early retirement at fifty one and now I have far too much time
Posted as took_the_package
- Looking for
- somebody busy, honestly, because I have become a bit much
- Experience
- Eighteen years, three dynamics, all while working full time.
- Around
- Plano side, Dallas
Twenty six years at the same company and then a very polite conversation and a number, and now I get up at seven for no reason and have finished everything I intended to do by eleven.
Fifty three, north side, dominant, eighteen years. Every dynamic I have ever run was squeezed into the edges of a demanding job, and I was good at that, and I have discovered that I am considerably worse at the opposite problem.
So this is an honest post rather than a flattering one. I have time and attention in quantities that would have seemed like a fantasy to me three years ago, and I have to be careful not to pour all of it onto one person. A submissive who has their own full life, their own work, their own friends and their own reasons to be unavailable is genuinely what I need, and not a compromise I am making.
What I want is a long structured arrangement. Regular days rather than snatched evenings, because I can do daytimes now, which changes what is possible. Service, protocol, standing rules, and correction that is verbal.
I am also happy to be useful in the boring ways that free time allows. Driving. Waiting. Being the person who can be somewhere at two on a Wednesday. Not looking for anybody who wants a dominant to fill their week, because I would do it and it would be bad for both of us. Not looking to be anybody's whole social life. I am working on not making anybody mine.