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Couples uptown, Dallas

One of us is out of state four days a week, so weekends only

Posted as away_till_thursday

Looking for
somebody with free weekends and no need for anything midweek
Experience
Together seven years, in this for three, two short arrangements.
Around
uptown, Dallas

He flies out on a Monday and comes back on a Thursday night, every week, and has done for four years. It is the arrangement that pays for the life we have and neither of us is going to pretend it is temporary.

Thirty one and thirty five, uptown, together seven years. What it means for anybody meeting us is simple: nothing happens Monday to Thursday, everything happens at the weekend, and if your weekends are spoken for then we are not going to work and we should both save the fortnight.

She leads in our house and has since about a year in. He is submissive to her and to nobody else, which is the specific thing we want to be clear about, because it is what two previous conversations foundered on. What we are looking for is one submissive woman for something regular and unhurried, who would be answerable to her, with him alongside rather than in charge of anything. That is an unusual shape and we know it.

Two short arrangements before, of eight and five months, both ended by us and both handled badly by us the first time, which we have since learned from and would do differently. We can host, our building is anonymous, and we are both careful for work reasons that are dull and absolute.

Not looking for someone who wants him in charge of anything. Not looking for a person who needs contact every day. Not looking for a couple, and we say that with no judgement, we have simply worked out it is not what we want.

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