Free between the drop off and the pick up, and not one minute after
Posted as school_run_hours
- Looking for
- a dominant with a flexible daytime and no evening expectations
- Experience
- Three years, one short dynamic that could not work around my hours.
- Around
- Oak Cliff, Dallas
I have my children full time. Their other parent is not in the picture and is not coming back into it. That means my available window is a weekday morning and early afternoon, and it means my evenings do not exist and will not exist for years.
Thirty nine, Oak Cliff, submissive, three years in. I know how this reads. Everybody on a board like this is free in the evening and I am asking for the opposite of what almost anyone can give.
But there are people whose work is shift based, or freelance, or who are retired, or who simply have a Tuesday off, and if that is you then I am probably the easiest person here to arrange something with, because my window is the same every single week and nothing ever moves it.
What I want is a dynamic that includes the parts of my life you cannot see. Tasks during the week. Something to report. Rules that survive a day when nobody in this house has slept. I have very little energy for anything performative and quite a lot of appetite for being told what to do by somebody competent.
My children will never know anything, will never meet anybody, and will not notice a single change in the house. That is the fixed point around which everything else has to bend. Not looking for an evening person who thinks we can make it work. We cannot. Not looking for anyone who wants to be introduced to my life. Not looking to be told I should get a sitter.