I live on the side of this city that does not care
Posted as south_of_river_glad
- Looking for
- a submissive who wants warmth in the structure and not just rigour
- Experience
- Ten years, two dynamics, both long and both fairly relaxed.
- Around
- Oak Cliff, Dallas
Half this board sounds like a legal disclaimer. Everybody is careful, everybody has a job that would end, everybody has a lid on. I understand all of it and I do not have that life, and I have started to think somebody should say so.
Forty seven, Oak Cliff, dominant, ten years. I work for myself, in a trade, in a neighbourhood where my neighbours have seen far stranger things than me and would not comment if they had. I am not out about any of this and I am also not particularly hidden, and the distance between those two states is where I have been comfortable for a decade.
What I want is a long dynamic that has some warmth in it. Structure, yes. Rules, yes. But I am not running a small institution and I have never enjoyed the version of this where everybody is very serious all the time. I laugh in the middle of things. If that ruins it for you, and for some people it genuinely does, we are not a match.
Service, obedience, protocol in the house, and a fair amount of ordinary time together that is not about any of it. I can host, which I am told is unusual on this board, and my house is quiet and nobody visits.
Not looking for a submissive who wants to be a project. Not looking for anyone who needs the whole thing to be austere in order for it to count.