Sixty two, widowed, and I am not asking anybody for a coffee
Posted as not_looking_friendship
- Looking for
- one dominant man over fifty for something ongoing and physical
- Experience
- Twenty years inside one marriage, six years of nothing since.
- Around
- the south side, Glasgow
Every time I post, three men write to offer me friendship and a coffee. I have friends. What I am looking for is a dominant and a physical dynamic, and I am tired of that being treated as a slightly indelicate thing to want at my age.
Sixty two, submissive, south side, widowed six years. Twenty eight years of marriage, twenty of them with this in it, and I have no intention of spending the rest of my life reminiscing about it.
I am in good health, I walk a great deal, and I am not fragile in any sense of the word. I know exactly what I like and I have known since the eighties, which does mean my vocabulary is out of date and I have had to look several things up.
What I want is one man over fifty for something ongoing and serious. Structure, expectations, and yes, the physical side of it. I would rather say that at the start than have it discovered in month three by somebody who assumed I was after company.
Not looking for friendship, and there is no rudeness intended in that. Not looking to be told I am an inspiration. Not looking for a person who wants looking after, because I did eleven years of caring and I have earned the right to be selfish about this.