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Couples St Pauli side, Hamburg

We are the youngest people in every conversation we have had here

Posted as everyone_older

Looking for
people our own age, or anyone who will not find us amusing
Experience
Two years together, one year in this, no experience with anybody else.
Around
St Pauli side, Hamburg

Every single person who has written to us has been at least fifteen years older. Most of them have been perfectly decent and we have still come away from all of it feeling like children who wandered into the wrong room.

We are twenty seven and twenty eight, together two years, St Pauli side. We found this together about a year ago, which we understand is lucky, and we have done all of it in our own flat with nobody else involved.

What we would like is to know people roughly our own age who are doing this. We are not naive about the fact that most of the experience lives with people older than us and we are not refusing to talk to anybody. We would simply like one conversation in which nobody explains a thing we already understood.

She switches, he is submissive, and we are not looking for a third or an arrangement. Friendship first, and honestly friendship might turn out to be the whole of it. Our flat is small, our jobs are unremarkable, and we have a great deal more free time than money.

Not looking for anyone who wants to introduce us to things, which has been offered four times and felt identical each time. Not looking to be told we will understand when we are older, which may well be true and is not a conversation. Not looking for a couple looking for a couple, at least not yet, because we would have no idea what to do with that.

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