His rota decides our life and we have built the whole thing around it
Posted as the_off_week_house
- Looking for
- a submissive who is free in the daytime on his off week
- Experience
- Fourteen years together, nine with this in it, one previous arrangement.
- Around
- the harbour side, Hamburg
He works two weeks on and two weeks off and has done for eleven years. When he is on, the house runs on my hours and this part of our life is entirely dormant. When he is off, we have fourteen days in which both of us are at home in the daytime and the house is completely ours.
We are forty two and forty four, near the harbour, together fourteen years. He leads. I am submissive to him and we have run that way for nine years, quietly and at home.
What we are looking for is one submissive woman, for something regular and long, on the off weeks, in the daytime. We know how narrow that is. It rules out anybody with an ordinary job, which is most people, and leaves shift workers, the self employed, students, people who work nights, and the retired.
We would want several conversations first and then a meeting with all three of us, and then more of those before anything else. Neither of us is in a hurry and both of us have been on the wrong end of somebody who was.
Our previous arrangement ran three years and ended when she moved for work. We are still in touch, and she would tell you we were fair, which is the main thing we would want anybody to know about us. Not looking for someone who can only do evenings. Not looking for a live in arrangement. Not looking for anybody who wants to be part of the marriage rather than part of this.