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Switches the harbour side, Hamburg

I keep a small boat and my ideal weekend is cold and wet

Posted as two_hours_of_weather

Looking for
somebody who would rather be outside than in a warm room
Experience
Nineteen years, both sides, three long dynamics.
Around
the harbour side, Hamburg

Almost everybody I have met through boards like this wants to be indoors. I spend as much of the year as I can on the water in a boat too small for comfort, in weather most people would describe as a reason to stay at home, and I would very much like to share that with somebody.

Forty eight, switch, harbour side, nineteen years in this. Three long dynamics. Two of the three ended in the same way, which is that the outdoor part of my life stayed completely separate and eventually became the place I went to be alone. That is not what I want it to be.

So I am looking for somebody who would actually come. Not as an indulgence of my hobby. Because being cold and wet and slightly frightened for two hours makes the evening afterwards a completely different thing, and I have never managed to explain that to anyone who has not done it.

The rest of what I want is ordinary. Something long and structured, on either side, with rules that survive a week in which we are both busy. I lean toward following, which surprises people who see the boat first.

Not looking for anybody who will agree to come once out of politeness. Not looking for a person who needs a plan for every hour. Not looking to be somebody's outdoor phase, which is a real thing that starts in spring and stops in October.

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