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Dominants east, London

Dominant, east, a short post because I am tired of long ones

Posted as blunt_instrument

Looking for
someone who answers the question that was asked
Experience
Twelve years. Two dynamics of about three years each.
Around
east, London

Twelve years in and my patience for this board is not what it was.

Here is what I want. One submissive woman, ongoing, who lives within an hour of the east side and can be somewhere on a weekday evening without a fortnight of negotiation. I want it to be a real part of both our lives rather than a hobby performed occasionally. Here is what I am. Thirty six, work in logistics, direct to a degree that some people take badly. I am not cruel and I am not cold, I just do not decorate things. If I ask a question I want the answer to that question rather than three paragraphs about why it is complicated.

Here is what fails every single time: wanting to be swept off your feet by somebody who has not met you. I have no idea what you need until you tell me, and if the answer is that a real dominant would already know, then you have been reading fiction and I am not the correction to it. If that reads as arrogant it is at least accurate, and you now know exactly what a message from me looks like on a Tuesday.

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