Skint postgrad switch, east, everything I suggest will be free
Posted as rain_check
- Looking for
- someone who is not embarrassed to do this on no budget
- Experience
- Three years, mostly with one person at university.
- Around
- east, London
Every date I propose is going to be a walk, a park, or somebody's kitchen, because I am twenty five and doing a funded PhD in a city that costs more than the funding.
I am saying it in the first line because I have twice got four weeks into something lovely and then quietly panicked about being invited somewhere I could not pay for. I would rather be the person who mentions it than the person who cancels. Switch, three years, mostly with one person through university who has since moved abroad. We were good at the talking part and bad at everything logistical, so I have quite a lot of theory and not much experience of arranging any of it around adult life.
What I want is someone in a similar position, or someone who simply does not care, and something that starts as friendship. I would like to know a person before I decide which way round we are. Genuinely, I do not know yet, and the last time I decided in advance I was wrong. East London, I share a flat with three other people, and my hours are mine to arrange, which is the one advantage of the whole situation. Not looking to be anyone's kept anything. If your reply is that money would not be a problem for me, please understand that is exactly what I am trying to avoid.