One of us works nights, so our only shared evening is Tuesday
Posted as overlap_is_tuesday
- Looking for
- another couple or a single person who can work with one evening
- Experience
- Six years together, four with this in it, no meetings yet.
- Around
- the east side, Los Angeles
He works nights in a hospital. I work days in an office. Our life together happens on Tuesday evenings and in the hour each morning when he comes home and I am putting my shoes on. We have been doing this for four years and we are, oddly, very happy.
Thirty two and thirty five, the east side, together six years. The kink part has been entirely ours and entirely private since about the second year. Neither of us has ever met anybody from this world in person, and we are both nervous about it, which is why we have written and deleted this post twice already.
What we would like first is people to know. Another couple, or somebody on their own, who understands this without a long preamble and who would come and eat something with us on a Tuesday. We are aware that is a very specific invitation and that Tuesday is inconvenient for almost everyone alive.
If something else came of it eventually we would both be glad, but we are not going to pretend we know what we want that to look like. We do not. We have talked about it a great deal and mostly we have discovered how much we still do not know.
He is quieter than me and he is not being dragged along. He read this three times and changed two sentences. If you write to one of us and treat the other as a formality, we will notice quickly and that will be the end of it.