Fifty, switch, and everybody in my corner of this already knows everybody
Posted as north_and_raining
- Looking for
- somebody outside the circle I have already met
- Experience
- Twenty two years, both directions, three dynamics of substance.
- Around
- the north of the city, Madrid
There are, by my count, about forty people in this within an hour of me, and I have met thirty of them, and I have been involved with four. That is not a boast. It is a small town problem occurring in a city, and it is why a woman of fifty with twenty two years behind her is writing an advertisement.
The part of this city I live in is a village in every way that matters here. People are private, the circles are old and closed and warm once you are inside them, and hardly anybody new ever arrives. I am inside one and it is not enough.
Switch, twenty two years, and at this point I follow more than I lead, though I am better at leading. Three dynamics of any length, the last of which ended two years ago when she took a job abroad and neither of us wanted to do it at that distance.
What I want is somebody I have not already met, and I am realistic that this means somebody from the other side of the city, or somebody who has recently arrived here for work.
I am blunt, I laugh a lot, and I have no interest whatsoever in anything performed. What I like is a long private arrangement between two people who see each other several times a week and do not talk about it to anybody. If you are already part of the same forty people, we have probably met, and if we have not, I would genuinely like to.