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Switches Coral Gables, Miami

Twenty five, in school, broke, and honest about all three

Posted as in_school_and_broke

Looking for
somebody who does not mind that everything I suggest is free
Experience
Two years, both sides, mostly with one other beginner.
Around
Coral Gables, Miami

I am in a graduate program, I work two jobs that fit around it, and I have almost no money. That is going to shape everything about how we would see each other, so it goes first. Every plan I propose is going to be a walk, a beach at six in the morning, or somebody's kitchen.

Twenty five, Coral Gables, switch, two years in.

Most of what I know I learned with one other person who was also learning, which was lovely and also meant that both of us were guessing. I would like, this time, to be with somebody who actually knows what they are doing, and I am aware that puts an obligation on me to be honest about how new I still am.

I switch, and I have done both, and I am still working out which parts of each I actually want as opposed to which parts I enjoyed because it was her.

What I do not want is to be anybody's dependent. If you want a person who is grateful for the treats, that is a whole arrangement people do have and it is not one I am looking for. I am simply saying, plainly, that a series of expensive evenings is not something I can match and I will not pretend otherwise for three weeks and then bow out.

Time is the one thing I have. My schedule is chaotic but it has enormous gaps in it.

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