Sixty three, experienced, and tired of being handled gently
Posted as stop_handling_gently
- Looking for
- a dominant who does not adjust everything because of my age
- Experience
- Twenty six years, two long arrangements, and a high tolerance.
- Around
- Fort Lauderdale, Miami
The last three people I talked to all did the same thing. They asked how old I was, and then everything they proposed afterwards got softer. Shorter sessions. Gentler suggestions. One of them said, kindly, that we would keep things comfortable, and I have been irritated about it for four months.
Sixty three, Fort Lauderdale, retired from aircraft maintenance, submissive, twenty six years in. I swim most mornings, I lift twice a week, and my doctor is bored by me.
I am not claiming to be thirty. There are things I did in my forties that I would not do now and I know exactly what they are, because I have been keeping track of my own body for a very long time. What I object to is somebody else deciding that list on my behalf, in advance, out of politeness.
What I want is a proper ongoing dynamic with a dominant who is exacting, who negotiates hard rather than carefully, and who will take my stated limits at face value in both directions.
I can host, I have plenty of time, and I am extremely easy to plan around.
If you find the idea of a man my age doing any of this either sweet or sad, I would ask you to keep scrolling, because I have had a lifetime of that and it is neither.