A service arrangement with no sexual element, and I mean that as written
Posted as keys_and_lists
- Looking for
- a formal service role with defined duties and a written agreement
- Experience
- Eleven years, two formal arrangements, the longer of them six.
- Around
- the south west, Moscow
I will put the unusual part first, since it decides whether the rest is worth your time. What I am looking for contains no sexual element at all. Not delayed, not once we know each other, not as something that might grow. None.
Forty seven, the south west, unmarried, no dependants, a logistics job that has trained me to be relentless about lists and deadlines. Eleven years in service dynamics, two of them formal and written down, one lasting six years until she remarried and the household changed shape.
What I am good at: order, records, errands, driving, correspondence, the hundred dull administrative things that make a busy person's week hold together. I keep accounts of what I have done because I like being able to show them. I am punctual to a degree several people have described as a personality defect.
What I would like is a dominant of any gender who genuinely wants that help on a regular defined basis, with terms agreed in advance, a set number of hours, and a proper review every few months in which either of us can end it without ceremony. No money moves in either direction, in case that needed saying: this is duty, not employment, and if it were employment I would want a contract and a different board. This is a narrow request in a city where most people are looking for something warmer. I would rather write honestly for the one person it suits than write vaguely, get twenty replies, and disappoint all twenty over the following month.