Nothing above the collar, nothing below the sleeve, and I am firm about it
Posted as nothing_that_shows
- Looking for
- a dominant who works within a hard physical limit without negotiating at it
- Experience
- Five years, two dynamics, one very good and one instructive.
- Around
- inside the ring road, Moscow
I stand at a reception desk in a corporate building and I have a medical every spring. Those two facts set a limit that is not about my nerve and is not going to soften once I trust you. Nothing visible. Ever. I have written it in the headline because burying it has cost me two months of somebody's time before now.
Thirty three, submissive man, inside the ring road, five years in. My last dominant was excellent about this and it turned out to be no restriction at all on anything either of us actually cared about. The one before her spent our whole four months treating it as a starting position in a negotiation, and every conversation had a small argument folded inside it.
What I do want is authority in ordinary life. Instructions I follow on days we do not see each other. Being asked afterwards whether I did the thing, and having it matter that I did. I am good at obedience when I respect the person and useless at it when I do not, and respect for me is built out of somebody being consistent about small promises for longer than they thought I was counting.
I can travel across the city on weekday evenings and I have most Sundays. I cannot host.
Not looking for anyone who describes a limit as a challenge. Not looking to be anybody's project. Not looking for a first meeting anywhere private.