Dominant, two kids, and a genuinely small amount of free time
Posted as co_parent_hours
- Looking for
- someone who would rather have two good evenings than none
- Experience
- Thirteen years, one long marriage with it in, one dynamic since.
- Around
- Queens, New York
My two daughters are with me most of the week. What that leaves me is two evenings a fortnight and the occasional afternoon, and I am not going to pretend otherwise in order to get more replies.
Forty six, Queens, dominant, thirteen years. My marriage had this in it for most of its length and ended for reasons unrelated to it. One dynamic since, which lasted a year and ended because she wanted more of my week than exists.
So I am posting for the person for whom two good evenings a fortnight is enough, or even preferable. Those people exist. Some of them are as busy as I am, some simply do not want anything larger, and I would much rather find one of them than talk somebody into settling for less than they need.
What I offer inside those hours is complete attention. I plan. I do not cancel unless somebody is ill. I am unusually good at picking up a thread that was dropped two weeks ago, because I have had to become good at it.
Not looking for anything that involves my children knowing anything, meeting anyone, or noticing a change in the house. Not looking for someone who wants daily contact. Not looking to be told I could make more time if I really wanted to, which is the last thing the last person said to me.