Retired, sixty one, seeking a household service arrangement and nothing more
Posted as service_only_h
- Looking for
- a formal service role with no sexual element whatsoever
- Experience
- Twenty two years, three long arrangements, the longest of them nine.
- Around
- Jersey side, New York
I will be plain about the unusual part first, because it decides whether you keep reading. What I am looking for has no sexual element at all. Not deferred, not eventually, not once we know each other. None.
I am sixty one, retired two years, and I live alone on the Jersey side within easy reach of the city. I spent twenty two years in service dynamics, three of them formal and long, the longest running nine years until she died. I have not looked for anything since, and I have found that I miss the structure far more than I expected to.
What I do well: household order, driving, correspondence, and the hundred small administrative things that make a busy person's week work. I keep excellent records. I am punctual to the point of being irritating about it.
What I would like is a dominant, of any gender, who wants that kind of help on a regular and defined basis, with a proper agreement, a review every few months, and clear boundaries on both sides.
I understand this is a narrow request and that most people reading a personals board are not looking for what amounts to a formal arrangement of duty. I would rather post honestly for the one person it fits than write something vaguer, get more replies, and spend a month disappointing all of them in turn.