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Submissives the north zone, Rio de Janeiro

Every dominant on this board lives in the south and expects me to travel

Posted as everybody_in_the_south

Looking for
one person willing to come north, or one person who already lives here
Experience
Seven years, three dynamics, and a great deal of time on buses.
Around
the north zone, Rio de Janeiro

I have counted. Of the last fourteen people who wrote to me, twelve live in the south zone and eleven of those assumed without discussing it that I would be the one crossing the city. One of them said, in writing, that it made more sense because there is more to do there.

Thirty nine, north zone, submissive, seven years. I am not going to pretend to be relaxed about this because I have spent seven years being relaxed about it and I have the bus hours to show for it.

The city is not a hierarchy of zones. I have a flat, I have a life here, and the journey costs the same in both directions. What I am asking is that it goes both ways, or at least that somebody notices they are asking rather than assuming.

What I want is an ongoing dynamic with rules, service and a lot of daily contact. I am extremely reliable and I do exactly what I say I will do. I am also, as you may be gathering, quite direct, and I have been told that is unusual for a submissive by people who do not know what the word means.

Not looking for anybody who will explain the geography of this city to me. Not looking for a person who wants me to come to them every time and calls it practicality. Not looking to argue about this again after this post.

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