BDSM personals in Rio de Janeiro
Rio is informal in a way that shows in the writing: posts here are chattier and more likely to start from company than from a list. The zone question decides everything practical, because crossing the city is a real journey and people are frank about not doing it often. Heat and the calendar matter too, and several posts mention that whole stretches of the year are simply not when they meet anyone.
Posts come from the south zone, the north zone, the centre, Barra and Niterói side. People lead with where they are for a reason.
Dominants in Rio de Janeiro
People looking to lead, and saying what that means to them.
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I want contact every single day and that is not negotiable
Looking for: a submissive who wants an intensive daily arrangement, not an occasional one
Nine years leading, two dynamics, both of them very high contact.
The most common thing I read here is somebody explaining how little contact they need. I want the opposite and I have learned to say it in the first line, because I have wasted two months more than once finding out we meant different things by regular.
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Twelve years in this city and four visits to the beach
Looking for: a submissive who would rather be indoors with the curtains shut
Seventeen years leading, three dynamics, all extremely domestic.
I moved here twelve years ago and I have been to the beach four times and two of those were because relatives were visiting. I am aware of how this reads. My friends have never let it go.
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Let us be practical about what is physically possible in the heat
Looking for: a submissive who plans around the weather instead of ignoring it
Eight years leading, two dynamics, and a lot of ruined summers.
Nobody on these boards writes about it and everybody deals with it. Half the things people describe wanting are physically unpleasant to the point of being dangerous in a room that is thirty four degrees at ten at night, and pretending otherwise has ruined two summers for me.
Submissives in Rio de Janeiro
People looking to submit, on terms they set out first.
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Sixty, retired, and available every weekday morning without exception
Looking for: a formal service arrangement with no sexual element at all
Twenty six years, mostly service, two long arrangements.
The part that decides everything goes first. There is no sexual element to what I am offering and no romantic one either, now or at any later stage, and I am not being coy or protective about that. There simply is not one.
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I am the loudest person in any room and I need stopping
Looking for: a dominant with the presence to actually hold a line with me
Twelve years, three dynamics, two of which I steamrollered.
I take over rooms. I do it without noticing, I have done it since I was a child, and in most of my life it is an asset and it is why I am good at my job. In this it is the single biggest problem I have.
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I am going to want to be friends for months first, sorry
Looking for: company first, and everything else at whatever pace it happens
Two years, nothing serious, a lot of very long conversations.
I have written to eleven people on this board and met four of them and every single one of those four is now just a friend, and I have decided to stop treating that as a failure.
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My flat has no air conditioning, so from December I am no use
Looking for: somebody who understands that four months of the year I disappear
Five years, two dynamics, one of which never survived a summer.
There is a fan in every room and none of it helps. From the middle of December until some point in March my flat is somewhere between thirty and thirty five degrees at midnight, and everything I might want to do in it becomes physically impossible.
Switches in Rio de Janeiro
People who go both ways and want a partner who can follow.
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My whole life happens before one in the afternoon
Looking for: somebody with mornings, which almost nobody here has
Nine years, both directions, one dynamic built entirely on breakfasts.
I am awake at five, I am useful until about one, and after that I am a slower and considerably less interesting person. This is not discipline. It is simply how I have always been and twenty years of trying to be an evening person has produced nothing but bad decisions made at eleven at night.
Couples in Rio de Janeiro
Partners searching together, with both of them in the post.
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From November we are two ordinary people who go swimming
Looking for: a submissive who can accept an arrangement that pauses every summer
Together seventeen years, seasonal for the last eight of them.
Every year, at some point in November, we stop. Everything goes on hold, the rules are lifted, and from then until March we are simply a married couple who go swimming and complain about the heat. Then it cools and we start again.
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Married thirty four years and we only started this three years ago
Looking for: a couple who have been at this for decades and will simply talk
Together thirty four years, three of them with any of this in it.
We were fifty eight and sixty when the subject arrived, and it arrived by accident, halfway through a disagreement about where to spend a holiday. Four months later we had talked of very little else and a marriage of three decades had quietly changed shape.
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