I am going to want to be friends for months first, sorry
Posted as talk_your_ear_off
- Looking for
- company first, and everything else at whatever pace it happens
- Experience
- Two years, nothing serious, a lot of very long conversations.
- Around
- the south zone, Rio de Janeiro
I have written to eleven people on this board and met four of them and every single one of those four is now just a friend, and I have decided to stop treating that as a failure.
Twenty seven, south zone, submissive, two years of knowing this about myself. What happens is always the same. We start talking, I like them, I want to know about their sister and their job and what they think about everything, and by the time the conversation gets round to what either of us actually wants I have decided I would rather keep them.
I am aware this is not how a personals board is supposed to work. I am also aware that at some point I have to let one of these turn into something, and I am hoping to find somebody who is patient enough to be there when I do.
What I think I want, underneath all the talking, is somebody who takes charge of things. Not my whole life. Just the parts of it where I make a decision, look at it, and change it four times.
I live with a flatmate near the water, I can host in the day when she is out, and I am free most evenings and all weekend. Not looking for anybody who will read the friendliness as an opening. Not looking to be told I am wasting people's time, which somebody said and which stung because it might be true.