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Submissives the centre, Rio de Janeiro

Sixty, retired, and available every weekday morning without exception

Posted as mornings_only_formal

Looking for
a formal service arrangement with no sexual element at all
Experience
Twenty six years, mostly service, two long arrangements.
Around
the centre, Rio de Janeiro

The part that decides everything goes first. There is no sexual element to what I am offering and no romantic one either, now or at any later stage, and I am not being coy or protective about that. There simply is not one.

Sixty, retired three years from a long career in a government office, living alone near the centre. What I do well is exactly what thirty years of that career made me good at: paperwork, correspondence, records, errands, standing in queues on somebody else's behalf, and the hundred small administrative jobs that a busy person never gets to. I am punctual to a degree that some people find irritating.

What I would like is a formal arrangement with one person, of any gender, on a regular basis, with a written understanding of what is expected and a review of it every few months. Weekday mornings suit me best and I am flexible about the rest.

Twenty six years of this, two long arrangements, the second of which ran eleven years and ended when she moved abroad. We still write at Christmas. No money moves in either direction. I am not for hire and I am not paying anybody, and I mention it because on a board like this it always has to be said.

Not looking for a relationship. Not looking for anybody who will find the whole idea sad, which people occasionally do. Not looking for someone who wants a servant as a decoration rather than as a set of tasks that actually need doing.

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