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Dominants Barra, Rio de Janeiro

I have a car, I will come to you, and apparently this is rare

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Looking for
a submissive anywhere in this city, genuinely anywhere
Experience
Eleven years leading, three dynamics, all across the city.
Around
Barra, Rio de Janeiro

Half this board is an argument about who travels. I have read forty posts in the last month and thirty of them contain a paragraph about zones. So here is mine, and it is short: I have a car, I like driving, and I will come to you.

Forty six, out in Barra, dominant, eleven years. All three of my dynamics were with people in completely different parts of the city and I did most of the moving in all three, and none of them ended over it.

I am not being noble. I genuinely do not mind. I listen to things in the car, I plan in the car, and an hour of that is not a cost to me in the way it obviously is to other people. If your reason for not being able to travel is money, or hours, or a building you cannot leave late, that is not a defect and it is not something you need to negotiate around with me.

What I want is a long structured arrangement. Regular evenings, standing rules between them, service and protocol and real obedience over time. I am not a heavy player. I am extremely consistent.

Not looking for anybody who wants me there five nights a week, because the driving does have a limit and that is it. Not looking for a person who reads the willingness to travel as eagerness. Not looking to be anybody's transport.

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