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Dominants the south zone, Rio de Janeiro

I want contact every single day and that is not negotiable

Posted as i_want_you_every_day

Looking for
a submissive who wants an intensive daily arrangement, not an occasional one
Experience
Nine years leading, two dynamics, both of them very high contact.
Around
the south zone, Rio de Janeiro

The most common thing I read here is somebody explaining how little contact they need. I want the opposite and I have learned to say it in the first line, because I have wasted two months more than once finding out we meant different things by regular.

Thirty five, south zone, dominant, nine years. Daily means daily. A message first thing, instructions, a report at night, and a real conversation most days on top of that. Not because I am insecure about it, but because the whole thing only becomes what I want it to be when it is continuous. In short bursts it is a hobby.

Both of my dynamics ran that way, three years and two years, and both of those people said the same thing at the start, which is that they had not realised how much they wanted it until somebody actually asked for it.

I am not asking to run your life. Your work, your money, your friends and your family are yours and I have no interest in any of it. I am asking for a thread that never gets dropped. I live alone near the water, I work from home, and my availability is unusual.

Not looking for anybody who wants a weekly arrangement, which is a perfectly good thing and simply not this. Not looking for a person who will agree to daily and then quietly not do it, which is the failure I have seen most. Not looking for somebody who cannot be honest when they have not managed something.

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