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Dominants Barra, Rio de Janeiro

I do not want my house cleaned. I want to be obeyed

Posted as no_housework_thanks

Looking for
a submissive interested in obedience rather than chores
Experience
Thirteen years leading, three dynamics, none of them domestic.
Around
Barra, Rio de Janeiro

Every second submissive who writes to me offers to clean something. It is kindly meant and it is not what I want and after thirteen years I have decided to put it in the advertisement rather than explain it individually forty more times.

Thirty seven, Barra, dominant. I have a cleaner. I like cooking and I am not giving it up. There is no domestic vacancy in my house and creating one artificially so that somebody can feel useful would be a strange way to spend an evening.

What I am actually interested in is obedience. Position. Address. How you enter a room and what you do with your hands. Whether you can hold a standard for four days when nobody is watching, and whether you report honestly when you could not. That is the whole of it and there is nothing hidden behind it.

I am specific and demanding about that and not cruel about failure, because failing honestly at something difficult is the interesting part. Three dynamics, the longest five years. All of them ran the same way and all three people came to me wanting a service arrangement and left preferring this.

Not looking for a service submissive, and I say that with respect for the people who want that, because it is a real thing and there are dominants here who want exactly it. Not looking for anybody who wants to be given a list of tasks. Not looking for someone who thinks obedience without chores is somehow less real.

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